Wanted first to say thanks to everyone who takes the time to read this....especially the one person in India!!I wanted to update for anyone who hadnt heard or was only praying because i asked them to(thanks!!!) my friends son came through the surgery fine. He was still sedated to alleviate pain but the family can rest a bit now and look towards a speedy recovery. We love you guys!! I love all of you who took a moment to remember them and say a little prayer.
For those who heard me hacking the last week i went to the doctor today and only have bronchitis. ok friends, i know bronchitis is nothing to joke about but really in the grand scheme of things ....like said surgery above....not a big deal and i will be good as new after 5 days of antibiotics! Oh and got some great cough meds with codeine so that doesnt hurt either!
Ok now a kind of rant.....i just read an article titled "marriage advice from cheaters". Seriously???? One part was a from a never married woman who was having an affair with a married man. Come on!!! SHe said that part of her allure is her self confidence. Really ??!!!??? Well try having six kids and your stomach is all stretched and you have kept a few pounds from each kid and have circles under your eyes cuz you havent slept since you can't remember when and then have some self confidence bitch. Try having confidence in the same clothes you have had for 3 years cuz you buy your kids new clothes instead and you dont want to buy new stuff till you lose that next 15 pounds that you never seem to lose. Another woman said she always gives her married man her full attention....100% every time he needs her. Ya know why?? cuz there isnt a 3 year old pulling on your jeans cuz they just spilled a cup of juice on the floor or the baby doesnt need to be changed and dinner made and the pta meeting is tonight. Now don't get me wrong here ladies and gentlemen, i am not saying these women dont have valid points. What i am saying is that there are going to be days when you can not be expected to drop the world and listen to your man 100% at the drop of a hat. There are days when he shouldnt expect it either. We have all had those days. We have also had days when the kids are all outside or asleep or miraculously not trying to kill each other and you should give your spouse the attention they want/need. I am also not saying we shouldnt take care of ourselves. I will admit i have let myself go and would like to lose some pounds....ok alot of pounds. But are we just our looks? Shouldnt we also be loved for the person we are inside? Come on spouses if we are all honest here we could all be in better shape and arent the young 20 somethings we were when we met. Let's live in the real world people and let's please not take marriage advice from cheaters!!!
ok rant over...i apologize and am now going to bed with my cough meds with codeine. Sweet dreams !!!!
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